No CB...me either!!! Thought it was just me and I'm missing something, not so smart, not so deep, not so cultured, not so... Then I wondered if there are inside jokes I missed. Glad I'm not alone.
No CB...me either!!! Thought it was just me and I'm missing something, not so smart, not so deep, not so cultured, not so... Then I wondered if there are inside jokes I missed. Glad I'm not alone.
wow - I missed it! Here done so much sleuthing for months and I missed the whole final blow-up. Oh, well - at least they're gone under those old names. So, how long until they show up again under new names? - lol.
CB, thanks to this blog I was able to kind of catch up at least.
wow - I missed it! Here done so much sleuthing for months and I missed the whole final blow-up. Oh, well - at least they're gone under those old names. So, how long until they show up again under new names? - lol.
CB, thanks to this blog I was able to kind of catch up at least.
I learned the hard way not to hold on to anger, resentment, stress... whatever you want to call it... and nearly paid for that mistake with my life. I now truly understand (to the very core of my being) what it means to "not sweat the small stuff." That is the reason I stopped blogging as much and am now just "testing the waters" so to speak.
I appreciate your viewpoint and your opinion but personally prefer to let go of the negativity. That doesn't mean I won't be more cautious and maybe a bit less trusting. However, I prefer to remember Candie in a positive light and for all the positive contributions she has made to the blogs. Remember when she first began blogging and the daily brain tease/twisters she would post? She also has provided many with valuable advice. She has recognized her mistakes, apologized, and waved the white flag. Can we not be forgiving enough to give her another chance?
Everyone here has value and I personally would love to see the negativity be turned to positivity. A tall order to be sure... but not impossible!
:-)
Dear CB,
Thank~you for understanding my opinion.
I learned the hard way not to hold on to anger, resentment, stress... whatever you want to call it... and nearly paid for that mistake with my life. I now truly understand (to the very core of my being) what it means to "not sweat the small stuff." That is the reason I stopped blogging as much and am now just "testing the waters" so to speak.
I appreciate your viewpoint and your opinion but personally prefer to let go of the negativity. That doesn't mean I won't be more cautious and maybe a bit less trusting. However, I prefer to remember Candie in a positive light and for all the positive contributions she has made to the blogs. Remember when she first began blogging and the daily brain tease/twisters she would post? She also has provided many with valuable advice. She has recognized her mistakes, apologized, and waved the white flag. Can we not be forgiving enough to give her another chance?
Everyone here has value and I personally would love to see the negativity be turned to positivity. A tall order to be sure... but not impossible!
Here's the thing tho. Candie goes through this same cycle, over and over again. Sure, she apologized, and then removed all her comments, so people can't see her nasty comments. And she will pontificate about how she wants peace in blogland. Then, in a few days, she will start fighting with someone. Then she will get mad and post that she is leaving. She will leave for a few days. Then she will come back. She will claim it is her right, that she is a paying member. After she cools down again, she will post a blog about how she will ignore certain people, and just say I Love You. Then the whole cycle will start over again. This cycle has repeated itself numerous times. It is very predictable.
Now, I myself should probably just shut up about the whole thing, and just watch her bury herself again and again. But, when she starts giving advice to newbies, after all the controversy she has stirred up here, time and again, is just too much for me.
SweetestOne, actually I do agree with you!
Here's the thing tho. Candie goes through this same cycle, over and over again. Sure, she apologized, and then removed all her comments, so people can't see her nasty comments. And she will pontificate about how she wants peace in blogland. Then, in a few days, she will start fighting with someone. Then she will get mad and post that she is leaving. She will leave for a few days. Then she will come back. She will claim it is her right, that she is a paying member. After she cools down again, she will post a blog about how she will ignore certain people, and just say I Love You. Then the whole cycle will start over again. This cycle has repeated itself numerous times. It is very predictable.
Now, I myself should probably just shut up about the whole thing, and just watch her bury herself again and again. But, when she starts giving advice to newbies, after all the controversy she has stirred up here, time and again, is just too much for me.
You know Sweetestone, I must've missed that apology. Either way, words as we've seen are meaningless here. Anyone can say anything for a small window in time to be whoever they want you to think they are.
It's character over time. Actions speak louder than words as we've hear our Mammas say probably. So, we'll see over time what the character and the heart show. Out of the mouth speaks the abundance of the heart is food for thought.
I must say, it's a self-checker for me when I want to blow up on here over...stupid stuff.
But, I appreciate your soft and tender heart towards people..any, all people. That's a gift Nancy.
You know Sweetestone, I must've missed that apology. Either way, words as we've seen are meaningless here. Anyone can say anything for a small window in time to be whoever they want you to think they are.
It's character over time. Actions speak louder than words as we've hear our Mammas say probably. So, we'll see over time what the character and the heart show. Out of the mouth speaks the abundance of the heart is food for thought.
I must say, it's a self-checker for me when I want to blow up on here over...stupid stuff.
But, I appreciate your soft and tender heart towards people..any, all people. That's a gift Nancy.
This is going to be one of those times where we will not agree but I hope you will keep an open mind anyway.
Candie has offered her apologies to everyone here as well as removed all her nasty comments. Can't everyone find it in their hearts to forgive and move on? Or at the very least, refrain from any more negativity and sarcasm? You stated that you wanted peace here but in order to obtain peace, we must learn to calmly coexist.
I'm just trying to be a voice of reason and hope you will receive this comment in the spirit in which it is intended.
:-)
Dear CrazyB,
This is going to be one of those times where we will not agree but I hope you will keep an open mind anyway.
Candie has offered her apologies to everyone here as well as removed all her nasty comments. Can't everyone find it in their hearts to forgive and move on? Or at the very least, refrain from any more negativity and sarcasm? You stated that you wanted peace here but in order to obtain peace, we must learn to calmly coexist.
I'm just trying to be a voice of reason and hope you will receive this comment in the spirit in which it is intended.
Hey! Where else is she going to go, my space? Think about it. It's a freaking zoo out there! I'm not even there and I pick up 2-3 new "friends" a day wanting me to be their friend. At least here, she's safe from the big bad wolf. She already now knows who's real now here. And, with men protectors here who really do care about women like Trey and Healey and Optimyst, whether she admits it or not, she's safe here now.
Hey! Where else is she going to go, my space? Think about it. It's a freaking zoo out there! I'm not even there and I pick up 2-3 new "friends" a day wanting me to be their friend. At least here, she's safe from the big bad wolf. She already now knows who's real now here. And, with men protectors here who really do care about women like Trey and Healey and Optimyst, whether she admits it or not, she's safe here now.
Yea, I saw that too CB, lol, of all people to give blog advice!!! I think the reason Candie cherishes JLogan's friendship is because I heard through the grapevine he gave her $3,000
Yea, I saw that too CB, lol, of all people to give blog advice!!! I think the reason Candie cherishes JLogan's friendship is because I heard through the grapevine he gave her $3,000
Candie has posted a blog to give her great advice to the newbies. I'm so glad the newbies have such a great role model! Oh, and what a wonderful friend Jlogan was to her! (If only he could have seen ...oh nevermind).
But Candie is now once again totally innocent and pure and sweet. She said so herself... " removed my nasty posts. I said what I had to say and as for me it is over and done with."
Candie, good for you, maybe you can make some new friends, who will think you are totally trustworthy, instead of going through your usual cycle of phases of blogging.
Candie has posted a blog to give her great advice to the newbies. I'm so glad the newbies have such a great role model! Oh, and what a wonderful friend Jlogan was to her! (If only he could have seen ...oh nevermind).
But Candie is now once again totally innocent and pure and sweet. She said so herself... " removed my nasty posts. I said what I had to say and as for me it is over and done with."
Candie, good for you, maybe you can make some new friends, who will think you are totally trustworthy, instead of going through your usual cycle of phases of blogging.
T- I was wondering where that name came from. I sort of couldn't get the image of chips smothered in that cheap melted processed nacho cheese out of my head. Not sure if you liked to bath in it as some sauces create that reaction in me! Thought..."to each his own!" haha
How about "PhillyTFabu"? "PhillyChzstk"? "PhillyFreedom"? "TPhillyGoGo"? "FrillyPhilly"? ok I'm getting silly...need to eat!
T- I was wondering where that name came from. I sort of couldn't get the image of chips smothered in that cheap melted processed nacho cheese out of my head. Not sure if you liked to bath in it as some sauces create that reaction in me! Thought..."to each his own!" haha
How about "PhillyTFabu"? "PhillyChzstk"? "PhillyFreedom"? "TPhillyGoGo"? "FrillyPhilly"? ok I'm getting silly...need to eat!
I thought I posted this already somewhere. For those that were here last year...do you remember when Alex would come on every so often here and on the Forums with MM updates? I recall him on the Scam Forum to let us know certain things too. I remember when Visiontants pic was stolen, and of course the Murder...but I also remember he had a few other blogs about the details to be careful and tips...not just this one.
I'm not sure who he is...he had a pic up once and I believe he is of Asian decent. Has anyone called MM to confirm he and John are for real? I'm the paranoid one here...but since I remember Alex from last year when MM was in the news, I tend to believe it's him. I not only noticed the 3 amigos profiles are gone, but all of the comments except 1 from March 9 are gone. Only MM, the individuals or the Blog originator could have done that on LPs Blog where it all went down. I doubt LP erased all the comments from that day except the one.
Latin Princess, can you confirm if you did?
I thought I posted this already somewhere. For those that were here last year...do you remember when Alex would come on every so often here and on the Forums with MM updates? I recall him on the Scam Forum to let us know certain things too. I remember when Visiontants pic was stolen, and of course the Murder...but I also remember he had a few other blogs about the details to be careful and tips...not just this one.
I'm not sure who he is...he had a pic up once and I believe he is of Asian decent. Has anyone called MM to confirm he and John are for real? I'm the paranoid one here...but since I remember Alex from last year when MM was in the news, I tend to believe it's him. I not only noticed the 3 amigos profiles are gone, but all of the comments except 1 from March 9 are gone. Only MM, the individuals or the Blog originator could have done that on LPs Blog where it all went down. I doubt LP erased all the comments from that day except the one.
If u read my post on his blog u will see he/she is just trying to start drama and scare people. That poor woman that was murdered well her murderer had NO connection to this website what so ever and they FOUND him 2 months after.
If u read my post on his blog u will see he/she is just trying to start drama and scare people. That poor woman that was murdered well her murderer had NO connection to this website what so ever and they FOUND him 2 months after.